Kristin Cavallari describes Hollywood bash that ‘felt like a drug scene’ and ‘painting’ power

Kristin Cavallari revealed that she recently attended what was “literally” called a “Slutty Valentine’s Day party.”
On Tuesday’s episode of her “Let’s Be Honest with Kristin Cavallari” podcast, the 39-year-old actress recalled that she was on a flight to Los Angeles when she was invited to a Valentine’s Day party by her friend Sophie, who told her she had to download a special RSVP-only app.
“This app thinks Raya is very secretive,” he said, referring to the celebrity dating site. “It’s like Fort Knox going in.”
“The dress code says, ‘Wear white if you’re single, pink if you’re heartbroken, black if you have horns and nude if you’re lazy,'” she continued. “And in my head I said, I have black leather pants and a naked top.”
“Wait, so what’s that combination?” podcast guest Jason Anderson asked.
“Laziness and patience!” Cavalari exclaimed as Anderson laughed.
“You packed the right outfit,” Anderson joked, before adding that the idea alone sounded like a “dirty party” and a “dirty party.”
“The Hills” alum went on to say that applicants are prohibited from taking screenshots within the app.
“Fort Knox, I tell you,” Cavallari said. “So I’m like, ‘What is this party? Where am I going? Part of me is like really excited and part of me is like, ‘What if—am I going to get into it?’
Cavallari recalled that before the event on Saturday, February 14, he met Sophie and some friends before their “group” headed to the holiday resort, where he was shocked by the level of security.
“And we go to this, it was called the ‘Slutty Valentine’s Day Party,’ so we get there, and it’s probably the worst security I’ve ever seen at a party or event,” Cavallari recalled. “There’s security to just go through the gate and that, and then, you need a QR code to get through the gate. And then once you get through the gate, there’s a checkpoint where you have to go in, see if your name is on the list. Then they put a sticker on your phone.”
“More than the camera,” he added. So I can say, ‘Jesus Christ. What are we going to go to?’
“So we’re going into this house, you guys, it’s from the seventies,” Cavalari continued. “I felt like we were in the movie ‘Boogie Nights.’ It’s like blue lights on a lake. Pink in the palm trees, like a few people gathered here and there. But then it’s like they’re telling us to go, go down the stairs and go down.”
“So we walk up these stairs, I’m not kidding, suddenly it’s like we’re turning a corner, entering a nightclub. It’s like a nightclub downstairs in this house. There’s even a room – like a cage – with a strip pole.”
Cavalari recalls that when he and his friends walked into the room, the group felt “like the heat had just hit us.”
“Like the heat of all the dancing, just sweating—with very little energy,” Cavalari said. “It felt like a drug den. It was like – hooks. I didn’t see one, I couldn’t sit here and feel like I saw any foul play. I didn’t see drugs. I didn’t see – but it just felt like that.”
Describing the atmosphere of the party as a “dirty atmosphere,” Uncommon founder James noted that he and his friends didn’t last long.
“We were there, I kid you not, for four minutes,” he said.
Cavallari told Anderson that while the event was “packed,” he didn’t see any celebrities in attendance, leading the pair to question the reason for the tight security.
“But again, we were like our little group and we said, ‘We’ve got to get the f— out of here,'” Cavallari said. “As we were all very tired.”
The “Laguna Beach” star also commented on how other guests interpreted the theme of the party.
“The clothes these girls were in – again, I’m not one to judge – but it’s like they’re taking sloppiness literally,” she said. “Like underwear and stuff. Of course, yeah, I don’t know. It was fun.”
Cavallari shared that after leaving, he and his friends later attended a different party where guests included rappers Chris Brown and Ty Dolla $ign. She recalled that she and her friends found the wrap party very relaxed and fun, and she met a “really nice guy” at the end of the night.
“We’ve been talking,” he said, adding that he is nine years younger than her.
The mother of three, whose last boyfriend Mark Estes was 13 years her junior, recently shared her best dating story: “Someone who doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them.”
“But we are here. There are no children. 30,” he said.
Still, Cavallari said the two have been “talking.”
“I think he’s coming to Nashville next weekend,” she said.
“And don’t live with me,” explained Cavalari, who lives in Music City. “But I’d like to take me to dinner.”



